feedin moms: Do you find it easy or relaxing at all?

I don't have any suggestions, but just wanted to tell you that it does get better after the first couple of months. It has been both easy and enjoyable for a long time, now (11 months out), but was painful in the beginning for me. If you have concerns, try to find a local lactation consultant who can evaluate the baby's latch and provide suggestions. Good luck!